I have an issue, hoping someone here might have an idea. As you can tell from my avatar picture I am a large guy (yah I guess that is an understatement. 6'1" and around 4 bills) My wife is a full figured lady. Here is the issue, we REALLY want to ride together on the FLRT, but when she is on the back with the sissy bar it pushes me too far forward, like my tender bits on the tank forward. Anyone have any sugestions on a sissy bar that would maybe push her back 2 inches or so? She really doesn't want to ride without a bar at all.