Let some of the air out, you don't need the full amount of air for comfort. Why is your wife sitting on your portion?
The first thing I did on my '14 TG was replace the ridiculously low windshield with the next taller(old standard height) windshield. Now it's perfect, I can raise the seat to it's fullest and look over the top and lower it so I can look through it when it's raining.
For me the combo is perfect.