The Back Nine (lengthy)

[Ol' Man Jeb]

*/THE BACK NINE/*

I FIRST STARTED READING THIS EMAIL & WAS READING FAST UNTIL

I REACHED THE THIRD SENTENCE.

I STOPPED AND STARTED OVER READING SLOWER AND THINKING ABOUT EVERY

WORD. THIS EMAIL IS VERY THOUGHT PROVOKING.

MAKES YOU STOP AND THINK.

READ SLOWLY!

*/AND THEN IT IS WINTER/*

You know...time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware

of the passing years. It seems just yesterday that I was young, just

married and embarking on my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it

seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know

that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and

of all my hopes and dreams.

But, here it is...*the back nine of my life*and it catches me by

surprise...

How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my

youth go?

I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking

that those older people were years away from me and that I was only

on the first hole and the back nine was so far off that I could not

fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.

But, here it is...my friends are retired and getting gray...they

move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and

some worse shape than me...but, I see the great change...Not like

the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant...

but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those

older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd become.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for

the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore...it's mandatory!

Cause if I don't on my own free will...

I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so, now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for

all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go

and do things that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I

know, that though I’m on the back nine, and I'm not sure how long it

will last...this I know, that when it's over on this earth, it's

over. A new adventure will begin!*Yes, I have regrets.*There are

things I wish I hadn't done, things I should have done, but indeed,

there are many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.

So, if you're not on the back nine yet, let me remind you, that_it

will be here faster than you think._So, whatever you would like to

accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off

too long! Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you

can never be sure whether you’re on the back nine or not!

You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life

so, live for today and say all the things that you want your loved

ones to remember and hope that they appreciate and love you for all

the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!

*"Life" is a gift to you.*The way you live your life is your gift to

those who come after. Make it a fantastic one.

*/LIVE IT WELL! ENJOY TODAY! DO SOMETHING FUN! BE HAPPY ! HAVE A

GREAT DAY! AND REMEMBER/*

*/_"It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and

silver_/*.

LIVE HAPPY IN 2023

AND LASTLY, CONSIDER THIS:

Your kids are becoming you...but your grandchildren are perfect!

Going out is good...coming home is better!

You forget names... But it's OK because some people forgot they even

knew you!

You realize you're never going to be really good at anything like golf.

The things you used to care to do, you aren't as interested in

anymore, but you really do care that you aren't as interested.

You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV 'ON' than in bed.

It's called "pre-sleep".

You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF"

switch..

You tend to use more four letter words... "what?"..."when?"...?

You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"?!

What used to be freckles are now liver spots.

Everybody whispers.

You have three sizes of clothes in your closet...two of which you

will never wear.

But Old is good in some things:

Old Songs, Old movies, and best of all,*OLD FRIENDS*!

Stay well, "OLD FRIEND!" Send this on to other "Old Friends!" and

let them laugh in AGREEMENT!

It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind

of life you have lived.



TODAY IS THE OLDEST YOU'VE EVER BEEN; YET THE YOUNGEST YOU'LL EVER

BE, SO ENJOY THIS DAY WHILE IT LAST!

Do not regret growing older...

It's a privilege denied to many!

[Phu Cat]

TODAY IS THE OLDEST YOU'VE EVER BEEN; YET THE YOUNGEST YOU'LL EVER BE.



Kinda similar to what I tell my children and grandchildren:

You are the wisest you've ever been, but not the wisest you will ever be. Hopefully at some point they'll figure out you get wiser as you get older.

[rhino 2]

I tell my kids.....When they compline that i move too slow.; Don't worry if you are lucky you'll get there some day....